Wilmington, Delaware Autumn Family Portraits

      There's truly nothing like a beautiful October afternoon on the East coast is there?! Throw in a new puppy and I am just smitten. These kiddos were thankfully game for throwing leaves and being silly. The internet is this funny place that can either bring people together or push people apart. Thankfully this is an instance of where the internet had a hand in brining this adorable family to me for a photo session! (Thank you local Facebook page where friends recommended me!) 

Do you not love her laugh and first grade teeth?! I ADORE it!

This is where it all begins, love snagging a few portraits of just mom and dad!

Wilmington Delaware, Autumn Family Portraits

 We met early in the morning, praying for the rain to hold off! Thankfully our hopes were fulfilled and the rain didn't come until we were pulling out of the parking lot! I have had the privilege of photographing these kiddos every fall since they were 3 and 1. It's been fun to watch them grow each year and hear what they are into. I am thankful for clients who trust me continually to capture their memories!

Monday Confessions, A glimpse into our weekend

    Here's a little glimpse into our weekend with Macy's first horse show Saturday and some cookie baking on Sunday! 

I confess that I am feeling a bit overwhelmed lately. I tend to feel this way during a busy family and photography season. It's all good things, don't get me wrong, but it's still a mountain of things I feel responsible for. It's the life of all mothers right?! I am trying to do it all with a toddler who is sort of walking and into everything! His latest achievement is being able to open all the doors in our house, heaven help me! 

I just finished reading, Rare Bird, and it literally made my heart hurt reading it. I was full on ugly crying at 6:30 in the morning Saturday while reading. Ben was up early and although I love Elmo as much as the next girl, I preferred picking up a book. I do whole heartedly recommend this book but at the same time, read with caution. If you have recently lost a dearly loved one, it might be balm to your soul. It also could crack your heart open into a million pieces if your a mother. It reaches right into all of our deepest fears, yet at the same time promises us God will still be there. It's a small but mighty book. I will not soon forget it or the story of Jack, a brown-eyed boy who loved his legos and God. Read with tissues!!!

So although I feel far less than capable of all the needs and to-do's in my life today, I am going to repeat this truth from Psalm 62 (& go get my free coffee, Go Eagles!),

"I wait quietly before God,
    for my victory comes from him.
He alone is my rock and my salvation,
    my fortress where I will never be shaken."

Finding Inspiration in Still Life

   If you asked someone who knows me well or knows my work, they would tell you I am a portrait photographer. I am rarely found without people in front of my camera. I also tend to shoot primarily in natural light on specific locations. Just because something is what I "tend" to shoot, does not mean it is the only place I find inspiration. Actually, recently it has been quite the opposite. I have found some inspiration in more unlikely places, like creating and shooting still life images with my students. On occasion, I bring my own camera to class. I need to push myself to shoot for the sake of creating and not just as a camera for hire. This tends to be the struggle of the creative who has found a way to make a living at his or her craft.

  I had forgotten a former love of creating still life images for photography and painting. Using lighting techniques and simple objects, one can create lots of interesting images. I think approaching an entirely different technique in the same medium is a great way to get the creative juices flowing! I just might try it again soon!

“Do whatever brings you to life, then. Follow your own fascinations, obsessions, and compulsions. Trust them. Create whatever causes a revolution in your heart.” 
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear

Monday Confessions, Recent Reads in Fiction

     Well friends, I promised a recent reads in fiction post after my lengthy post about non-fiction. I have gone through phases in my life of reading a lot and other phases where I hardly read a thing, unless I had to. I recently heard a saying though, "readers are leaders" or maybe it was "leaders are readers," but either way it applies. I find that when I am in a constant reading pattern, even if just for entertainment, it keeps my brain functioning more efficiently. I find that the more I read, the better I express myself in language both in writing and speech. I recently joked on social media if it would be a big nerd move to just ask for books for Christmas?

Here are some thoughts on my recent reads...

What Alice Forgot, By Liane Moriarty - I really enjoyed this read. It was easy to get through but made me think. The premise is that the main character, Alice, wakes up after a bad head bump and doesn't remember the last ten years of her life. It got me to thinking, if I didn't remember the last decade, I wouldn't know my kids or barely know what marriage is all about. It was a charming and thoughtful read, true to Liane Moriarty's style. She has a way of keeping you interested and not doing anything too expected in her tales. (I also liked her book Big Little Lies, which I believe will also be a movie soon). 

Stern Men, By Elizabeth Gilbert - If I am being honest here, I had to make myself finish this one. I find myself really pushing through a book when I don't attach to any characters. If I don't find characters relatable or redeemable, I tend to get disenchanted by the book. I really like Liz Gilbert (of Eat, Pray, Love fame) but this one just wasn't worth it for me. It had bits of dark subject matter and just felt sort of depressing. If you like Liz Gilbert though, check out her recent podcast called Magic Lessons. It's an exploration of creative living, which was the topic of her bestselling book, Big Magic. I've listened to first few episodes and really have enjoyed them. Hint: episode two was Liz interviewing Cheryl Strayed, the writer of Wild (another great memoir). The interview explored creativity and motherhood interestingly enough. (There is occasional foul language in the podcast, giving it the explicit label but I assure you in the few I listened to I did not hear much.)

Keeping Faith, By Jodi Picoult - I have mixed feelings about this one really. I sometimes love Jody Picoult's writing and other times I find myself skimming because I feel like the story drags. The one was gave me those mixed feelings. It was an exploration of ideas of faith, as well as human relationships being tested. The thread woven through was a mother's persistent love, which so many of us can relate to. In the end, I wouldn't necessarily categorize it as "must read" but it was an interesting enough story.

After You, By Jojo Moyes - If you liked Louisa Clark in Me Before You, then you will still love her in this sequel. It is hard to imagine what Louisa face where Me Before You left off (no spoilers here.) I found myself cheering Louisa on as she searched for what was next in her life. It's hard to really say much without spoiling Me Before You, but I liked this sequel. It helps answer a few questions as to what happened with some characters down the road. 

Back in non-fiction land, the Magnolia Story officially comes out Tuesday! I can't wait to get my hands on a copy. I read the first chapter over the summer as treat for those that pre-ordered. It was charming as well as hilarious, much like Chip & Joanne themselves.

ProjectTen October

“I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers.” 
― L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables

October has snuck up on me for sure! Isn't it still back to school time? Well I guess the chill in the air and the smell of bonfire suggests otherwise. I am thankful for project ten getting me to shoot more of the every day activities. This is a glimpse into my afternoon time between homework and dinner! Here's just a handful of moments with my four crazy, lovable kiddos in this beautiful fall weather. I basically have to chase the big kids and try to keep the toddler out of harms way. Good times! 

Right before I had to drop the camera to keep the toddler from flipping out of the car!

Off we go...this girl came home one day a week ago and said, "Mom, take these training wheels off," and she never looked back! 

He's giving kindergarten a run for its money!

Long day...

What's for dinner? I am over this!

Make sure to check out these other ladies participating in Project TEN to see what they're up to in life and photography! Katie Hall, Paula Richwine, Cait Jensen, Lisa O’Brien, Parker Slaton, Rae Barnes, Erin Gregerson, Kelly Lapp, Kate Neal, Heather Butler

Monday Confessions

If I am honest, I really don't know where this post will take me this morning. I am telling myself to "keep it light" and steer away from controversial topics. Don't you feel like everything can quickly turn into a controversial topic these days? Even the fact that it's Columbus Day is apparently being argued against. SO I will attempt to share my heart with what comes to the surface this morning...

On  a high note, Macy had her very first trip to NYC yesterday for a friend's birthday adventure in the American Girl. I missed all of my boys but it was fun to have an adventure with just my girl! We loved the special treat that it was to do lunch in the American Girl Cafe in their Fifth Avenue store! Although it was a very short trip, Macy felt all the New York magic and said, "I love it here Mom! I want to come back and stay!" I figured that wouldn't be the best time to tell her I never got an overnight NYC stay until my 30th birthday but I digress :) The whole experience in the cafe was darling, including the dolls receiving their own chairs, plates and cups! (pardon the iPhone shots, big camera stayed home)

1. I am reading Love Warrior by Glennon Doyle Melton. Let me just say up front that she's a beautiful writer. She is really sharing every detail of her story in a way that takes you there, but if I am honest, some of it is hard to be there with her in. I am not saying that she shouldn't be sharing, bravo for her bravery in truth telling. I am saying though that when she writes about the hard things, I find myself thinking about how they apply to all of us. I am simultaneously reading Brene Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection,  which actually is a good combination of reads. The tag line on her book is "Let go of who you think you're supposed to be and embrace who you are." Who doesn't want that?! If you don't think you will pick up the book, she shares a lot of the same ideas in this podcast episode.  (It was my first listen to the Deconstructionists Podcast)

2. I've been listening to a variety of podcasts lately. You all know I love Jamie Ivey's Happy Hour, Stuff You Missed in History Class, God Centered Mom and  Focus on the family. I've just found that when I am spending my mom taxi time in the car without any kids, I try to listen to things that I can learn from or be encouraged by. What's one of my favorite episodes I've listened to lately? Glad you asked. I actually was really encouraged by a recent episode of Focus on the Family featuring Dr. Tony Evans. The title of the podcast is Voting as a Kingdom Citizen and it really helped me to see what the  bible has to say about participating in government. I think I actually will listen to it for a second time because I need to hear the truth so badly and not fall prey to all of the hyperbolic voices out there.

3. I confess I did not watch the presidential debate last night, I got home too late from NYC but I recorded it. I can't decide if I actually want to go back and watch it?! Yay or nay friends? 

 4. I got derailed last month from my workout plan with sickness. I hate when that happens so I am working on figure out what is next for my workouts. I wanted to get in some more fall running with this beautiful weather but have found it hard to get out of the house alone! Today kids are all home from school so I am hoping to the the park with them for a walk/bide ride.

5. I may or may not be rematching all the old Gilmore Girls episodes on Netflix in order to prepare for the new release season coming next month! I wasn't a religious watcher because they came out while I was in college and I was otherwise busy. I definitely did watch it from time to time though so it feels a bit nostalgic. (I've already watched all the Fuller House episodes multiple times with my kids :) 

6. My current favorite nail color is OPI, I Sing in Color. It's apparently a part of the Gwen Stefani color collection but it's sort of a dark wine color and I am digging it for fall.

 Well my friends, the Eagles had a tough loss today so we will no be receiving the benefits of free Dunkin' coffee today. I don't know why free coffee makes Monday so much better, but in the words of Lorelai Gilmore, "I can't stop drinking the coffee. I stop drinking the coffee, I stop doing the standing and the walking and the words putting into the sentence doing." Happy Monday friends! 

Abby & Rachel: cousins, seniors and besties!

Today is part 2 of the two part senior session I wrote about yesterday with cousins, Abby and Rachel. Today is the lovely Rachel! 

Abby & Rachel: cousins, seniors and besties!

      I remember back to the autumns of high school and think of chunky sweaters, chilly soccer games and chocolatey hot chocolate! It was such a fun season of life (most of the time ;) and I remember a lot of it fondly. As a senior, I remember that feeling of both being on the front edge of adulthood but also this sense that all of life is still ahead of you. I also remember the stress of school work and wondering where I would end up for college. Do you remember those days? 

    I got two catch up with two sweet senior girls last weekend to capture this time in their lives. Their personalities were just as lovely as their faces! These girls are not just cousins but very dear friends to one another. When I got asked if I would consider shooting a double senior session, I thought, why not?! What I didn't realize is that it would be an absolute great fit both for these girls and a fun experience for me! Each girl helped the other to bring out her own personality during the shoot. I wish them all the best as they plan for the future!

Today is Part 1: Abby

Monday Confessions, it's feeling like fall!

   Monday mornings are usually met with a mixture of exhaustion and hustle. There's the immediate needs like packing lunches and rounding up school papers or like today it was picture day so we needed some fresh hair styles to go along with the day! I often succumb to what they call, "the tyranny of the urgent." It's everything we need to get done in the moment, which sometimes leaves me feeling frazzled. I am trying to do a better job of preparing the night before and taking a lot of deep breaths in the morning routine. Kids will be kids but if I can be more subdued in my own reactions, things will go more smoothly...or so I tell myself! 

That being said, we had a huge weekend in our house. I have an especially tired body and also a very full heart! I had a wedding Saturday that I was photographing and yesterday our "3 bigs" got baptized. It was a beautiful and special day all around. Our 3 big kids all professed faith in Jesus at different times over the summer and followed through yesterday with baptism. We were so blessed to four different generations of our family represented in the audience!

As a parent, we often wonder what effect the day in and day out decisions have on our kids. We all always wonder if we are doing anything right. Yesterday though, surrounded by family and church family celebrating, we felt both joy and pride. We pray that these kids do choose to walk in faith throughout their life. These words were spoken over them, "Based upon your profession of faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, I now baptize you in the name of the Father and Son and Holy Spirit. Buried with Him in the likeness of His death, raised with Him in the likeness of His ressurrection to walk in the newness of life."

As for my usual Monday confessions, here's a few...

 1. I confess twice last week I had to run out to the curb in my pink fuzzy robe with library books for various children. 

2. I am reading Brene Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection and man it is a good one. It's not dauntingly thick which is honestly helpful when you pick up a book that you know is going to do some work on you. Dr. Brown writes, "Sacrificing who we are for the sake of what other people think just isn't worth it...When I let go of trying to be everything to everyone, I had much for more time, attention, love and connection for the important people in my life." (pp. 53).  This has been a big thread for me lately in my own personal growth. (I borrowed my copy from the library for any interested local friends but then I don't like when I can't write in it :) 

3.. I already took a walk with my cutie Benji to get my free Dunkin coffee for the Eagles win. I am counting it as excretes and fresh air for today! (By the way, I think this is the first season ever that the Eagles came out winning 3 straight! Here's to a good season!)

 I know this post is a bit of a hodge lodge of life but that's what I am feeling today! Walking through both the glorious and the mundane this morning ask I do client work, sip my coffee and move the loads of laundry through. Have a beautiful week friends! 

Anniversary Sessions

    Earlier this summer I was thinking about all my brides and grooms from the decade past. I offered my previous wedding couples to take me up on an anniversary session special. It was really fun for me to get to connect with the few that took me up on it! I love getting to photograph families at all their different stages and to reconnect with couples after their wedding day. One such couple from a few summers ago that I connected with, was Will and Taylor. You might remember their 2014 wedding if you've been following along for some time!

 We met up on a warm, sunny summer evening to capture some new memories as they enter into a new season in life! Will & Taylor will soon be parents! Congrats to them and I love how our session flowed as the sun went down! 

Project TEN - September

     Our summer went out with a great big bang! Matt's parents were able to surprise the kids with a trip to Disney on our last week before school started. I honestly had no idea how I could edit over 1,000 photos down to ten but I just pulled out ten that I thought were sweet moments. This handful of images are ways that I will remember the kids on this trip forever. Max with his Goofy hat will be burned in my brain as how he was on the week he went to kindergarten. Ben with his first set of Mickey ears sitting in front of the castle will be another memory I keep. So everything from watching parades to chatting with Cinderella will be a little time capsule for us of our trip to Disney. I am so thankful for our kids to be able to build all these memories not only with us, but with their grandparents. We've had quite a few reminders lately of how short life is! We've been in a whirlwind since we got home from the trip with starting school and adventures that left one sweet princess with stitches. Hope your summer ended as well as ours did! 

Make sure to check out these other ladies participating in Project TEN to see what they're up to in life and photography! Katie Hall, Paula Richwine, Cait Jensen, Lisa O’Brien, Rebecca Bender, Parker Slaton, Rae Barnes, Erin Gregerson, Kelly Lapp, Kate Neal, Heather Butler

Monday Confessions: There has to be a better way

   I am coming off a great but full weekend, filled with friends and family! I am tired but my heart is full. On Saturday I got to spend a day on the beach with 5 other dear friends and it was fantastic. The sun was high in the sky and the ocean was the perfect chilly temp to cool us off. It truly is amazing how fast a day without kids can go! 

  An interesting thing happened though as we were sitting on the beach. A woman was walking around asking for people to meet her at a certain spot at 1pm in order to all say the pledge of allegiance. She just lost her cousin to suicide, he was a young man of only 26 and a war veteran. How could we not all respond to such an unnecessary loss? As it neared 1pm, people from all over the beach started making their way to the designated area. I cannot tell you the power it was to look around at people from every color and creed standing there, as Americans. We stood together to say the pledge, to honor this lost soldier. Did you know an average of 22 veterans take their own lives each day?

  A few things have been rolling around in my mind since then. First of all, there has to be a better way. The statistics on suicide among veterans is staggering. These men and women have sacrificed so much, yet feel so lost. I cannot write any of this from personal experience, but among my dear friends on the beach was an army wife. We had a good conversation about the reality soldiers face upon return. 

   Another thing that has set on my heart was the fact that we could all lay aside our differences on that beach, to just be Americans together. I am sure if you pulled any two of us aside, we might've had differing opinions on everything from sexuality to social justice. We were an extremely varied group, yet it was important to come together. In this election season, we have all  seen and felt so much divide. My hope for the rest of this election year, we find ways to come together like this, "one nation under God."

  If you feel led to contribute to making  a change to these statistics, there's a really fantastic program out there called Heroes and Horses. The program allows "challenging them to rediscover who they are and what they can be moving forward. Heroes and Horses’ focus is not about what happened, but what can happen when one chooses to press on."

Recent Reads, memoirs and non-fiction

 It's so hot in Delaware right now it feels like the surface of the sun. Ok I maybe exaggerate, but seriously, it's hot. Here's today's heat index is literally over 100. In this heat, you really only have two options. Option one is to stay in the air conditioning at all times. Freezer aisle anyone?! Option two is to sit in or by a body of water, such as a pool, lake, ocean or otherwise. Both of those options lend themselves to some reading, which is just what I've been doing.  When gathering my book list as of late, I realized that I had too many for one post if I could actually expect you to read it, so I will post later this week on fiction reads! Here's a run down of some of the non-fictions reads I've finished from spring through summer.

American Wife by Taya Kyle - I had previously read and really enjoyed Chris Kyle's memoir, American Sniper. Through reading that and also seeing the movie, I thought I might enjoy hearing his wife's perspective. In all honesty though, it was hard for me to pick this up to read knowing how it ended for Chris. It still seems so senseless and crazy to me that in all Chris endured during war, that he was gunned down by a mentally ill man that he was trying to help. All that aside, I liked reading her side of things but it was hard at times. I think if anything, both this book and her husband's book reminded me just how much we need to be thankful for those that serve in the military and their families. As Chris would've said, they chose that life, but it still costs them something above and beyond just a job.

Strong and Kind by Korie Robertson - I really enjoyed this read as fodder for parenting. Korie writes about the value of instilling character traits into your kids that you want them to have as adults. We can't just say we want our children to be these things, we need to show them. We need to parent in a way that allows them to exercise character traits like being strong and kind.  Korie's family growing up would take a list on vacation that has written out all of their family's values and rules. For example, their number one was, "Actions have consequences: you reap what you sow. What you do, does affect others.'I am responsible.'" I love that idea, although we have not formally created our list yet, it has given me something to think about. 

Food by Jim Gaffigan - I picked up this book with a sincere need to laugh. Sometimes life feels heavy or things feel out of control, but reading this book was a good way to get a giggle and remember not to take yourself too seriously. The chapter on eating vegetables alone had me in tears. I now have my family relating the taste of kale to bug spray, thanks to Jim.

Dad is fat by Jim Gaffigan - I realized that I was reading Jim's books out of the order he wrote but this book is his take on parenting a large family. I could relate to many things he joked about, such as the sheer noise level in a house with 4/5 kids or the intricate game of musical beds that happened every night trying to get all the kids asleep in their respective rooms. It was a funny, fast, easy read that I would totally read again!

Bossy Pants by Tina Fey - I guess I was on a comedy kick because I read this around the same time as the Jim Gaffigan books. I don't know if it was the proximity to growing up in Philly or what but as I laughed, I totally understood the nuances of her childhood tales. The chapter on her dad, Don Fey, might have been my favorite. Although she's a bit older than me, I could definitely relate to some things about growing up as a strong female, aka "bossy." Most girls could relate to other sentiments she shared, like how boys paid more attention to her when she was thinner than seasons when she was thicker. There were definitely some language and precarious situations she found herself in, but overall it's another fun, light read that will make you laugh.

Hope Heals by Katherine and Jay Wolf - Swing the pendulum far to the other side of light, funny reads to this beautiful but heavy memoir on suffering and God's grace. I first saw Katherine speak on a snippet from If:Gathering earlier this year. I knew this was a lady I wanted to hear more from. I wept, laughed and generally just felt convicted while reading this book. It's a beautiful story about hardship, suffering and what God can do in the middle of it all. I just passed it to a friend and I think I will be most likely buying and sharing it with others along the way. If you don't have time to grab the book yet, check out Katherine's interview on Jamie Ivey's Happy Hour podcast that I also love! 

Loving My Actual Life: An Experiment in Relishing What's Right in Front of Me by Alexandra Kuykendall - I tore through this book on my last couple days of vacation with Matt. I think it's combination of perfect timing in my life to read this and just the fresh way she approached every day issues for mamas. Alex gives good perspective on how to tackle issues in our every day lives to help us gain more enjoyment from our days. I had some big take aways that I am still working on but one of them was cutting out noise in my life. I have 4 kids, so some noise in unavoidable but it's the "noise" like social media that I need to get rid of. I had already locked my phone in the safe on our resort most days on our trip and I LOVED it. (I had my phone out on this particular day for a while because Matt was off on a fishing adventure and we would eventually need to reconnect). Not having my phone for days, except when I actually needed it, was a huge push to keep that lifestyle going when I got home. I have been docking it when I am at home and doing FAR LESS Facebook and such. It's been so good for my head and heart. We let so much noise seep in when we don't even realize it. Alex writes that when we get rid of some of that excess noise, we realize how much God is there in our every day moments when we make space to actually hear from him. I could honestly probably write a whole post on life applications from this book but I will spare you. If you are a mama raising young kids and trying to live a life of faith, grab this book. You'll be glad you did! (Alex also did an interview with Jamie Ivey on the Happy Hour podcast).

Lovable Livable Home by Sherry Petersilk - I needed some home inspiration and I love the couple from the Young House Love blog.  I used to love decorating and doing this around my house but parenting small children has almost wiped me of my will to live on some days, much less worrying about my house. They break things, spill things and generally ruing whatever you own. I try to keep a nice home but I thought that this book might inspire me to make some small, realistic updates when I get some time. I haven't read cover to cover but have been browsing it in sections. They have practical helps and tips as well as lovely photos! It makes a cute coffee table book that I can pick up and put down easily. 

 I have a stash of things I want to read and the list is always growing! What am I in the middle of reading?

Present Over Perfect by Shauna Niequist ( I might finish this today, Shauna is my favorite!)

Wild and Free by Jess Conolly and Hayley Morgan (Been reading in chunks)

Calm My Anxious Heart by Linda Dillow (Also been reading in chunks because I feel so convicted)

Radiant by Marian Jordan (I read this with some friends but have a few chapters left. It's a little slow and I need to convince myself to finish it but I will if my friends do ;)

And if you didn't read For the Love when it came out last year... seriously buy it. Jen Hatmaker is both real and hilarious in her observations on life and faith.  If you haven't pre-ordered Joanna & Chip Gaines' Magnolia Story, it comes out in October so you have time. I got to read the first chapter electronically because I pre-ordered it as a gift. I was laughing and feeling all the feels as I read their first date story. I can't wait to read the rest this fall! 

Our Ten Year Anniversary and our kiddos!

      The traditional anniversary gift for the ten year anniversary is tin or aluminum. The modern day gift is diamond jewelry. Thank goodness Matt took the modern approach! He surprised me on our trip with a beautiful anniversary band. Today officially marks a decade of marriage for Matt and I! Although it's hard to believe all that we've been through in the last ten years, it also it hard to believe how quickly life passes us by. On this day ten years ago, I really had no clue other than I was in love and ready to dive in with both feet! I can honestly say though that I love Matthew more today than I did that day. It's the kind of love that has been stretched and tested. It's the kind of love that endures. 

    Although today is our anniversary, I had planned to finally blog a photo session of our kiddos from June. I think it appropriate to celebrate on this day a bit of the blessing of these past ten years, some of the biggest blessings being our four children. 

"Children are a gift from the Lord;
    they are a reward from him.
 Children born to a young man
    are like arrows in a warrior’s hands.
 How joyful is the man whose quiver is full of them!"

Psalm 127: 3-4

Can I just confess too that as a photographer, it can be a struggle to take photos of my own kids. This was actually a spur of the moment photo session right before bedtime one night, so I am lucky it worked at all. It was a combination of bribing, being silly and threatening to make this happen :) I confess that I always feel pressure to have amazing photos of my own family but sometimes life just doesn't work that way! I am thankful though for the times that we push through and just make it happen! Have a great weekend friends!

Project TEN August

 "Have courage and be kind" hangs on a sign over her bed. Although this quote comes from the Cinderella movie, it truly is my wish for her as she grows. She is naturally a sweet soul so I have no doubt as to her kindness, but may she always have courage when she needs it! My project ten for August is focusing on my sweet 7 year old Macy and we drew some inspiration from her summer sunhat. May she always be beautiful inside and out!  (She chose the outfits herself)

Make sure to check out these other ladies participating in Project TEN to see what they're up to in life and photography! Katie Hall, Paula Richwine, Cait Jensen, Lisa O’Brien, Rebecca Bender, Parker Slaton, Rae Barnes, Erin Gregerson, Kelly Lapp, Kate Neal, Heather Butler

Monday Confessions, the endless summer & a few things I am currently loving

                  As a teenager I would've loved the idea of the endless summer. As a mom though, this summer is feeling endless. Don't get me wrong, we've enjoyed the together time, the weather, adventures, the change of pace and so many other things. I am just feeling though, that there is a reason that most kids thrive on a routine. As Shauna Niequist recently wrote upon her last evening at their summer lake house, "It's time for bedtimes & vegetables & haircuts & back to school shopping." I am feeling ready for these routines myself.

    I think God knew our souls would need seasons. We need fresh chances, changes of scenery and other subtle transitions to move ourselves forward in life. I am both trying to savor what's left of summer in these next few weeks and also prepare myself for what lies ahead.  In 4 weeks, you might have to remind me that I asked for the back to school routine when I am packing lunches, checking homework and cattle prodding kids in different directions! I am also going to pick up teaching again this fall semester so I will have a back to school transition for myself as well. 

  As we enter the second week of August, here's a handful of things I am currently loving. 

1. I confess that I used to listen to Tom Petty's greatest hits album in my walkman while cutting the grass as a young teen. No, I am not kidding. Don't knock it until you try it! Sing a little free falling while emptying the grass clippings my friends. Because I have this affinity for Tom Petty, I was more than excited to discover Sirius XM radio has a Tom Petty greatest hits station going on right now on channel 31. You're welcome. "Running down a dream...."

2. Over the weekend I checked out Christy Nockels new podcast, the Glorious in the Mundane.   I was already a fan of her music so I figured I would see what she had to say. I love the concept of the podcast, which came from a season of life she experienced herself. She writes this, "We all sense that we are made for more and have dreams and plans for Kingdom things but often we work from a place of exhaustion because we're ultimately looking to ourselves and our performance to keep ourselves "on the map" in terms of relevance, culture and spirituality." I can definitely relate feeling the pressure to keep up. It's the constant pressure we put on oursleves to perform and try to live up to sometimes impossible standards. I am looking forward to listening to what she and her guests chat about!

3. I tried the new Starbucks drink over the weekend called the Iced Coconut Milk Mocha Macchiato. Yes, that's A LOT of adjectives and don't forget to add tall, grande, or vent in there when ordering. I have to say though it was yummy! Every once in a while it pays off to try something new.

4. I confess that the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale got me on a few items! I know that I have linked to this mama's blog before but she did a great job breaking down items to purchase to go with different outfits. I snagged a great pair of lighter blue skinny jeans and an olive colored tunic length button down. The jeans will mix into my every day fall wardrobe and I am hoping to work the top into my teaching wardrobe! What are some current items you hope to mix into your fall clothing?

5. Poldark on PBS....A friend tipped me off to this and I have binge watched almost all 8 episodes this week! If you love Downton or other similar series, you will love this one. Aidan Turner definitely does the role justice and is pretty easy on the eyes. The series focuses on what happens with the common folk in England after the revolutionary war as well as the upper class . The divide between classes is still a huge theme but it's a bit more gritty than Downton with more interaction with "vulgar" characters. (It's currently free as a part of Amazon Prime this month if you're a member.)

If you are a new blog reader here, welcome. Monday confessions is just a mixture of musings, likes, dislikes and current happenings in my life. It's just a little open window into my days to let you know what's going on with me in between my photography posts. It's just a little bit of everything!  

An anniversary trip to the Bahamas!

  I one heard someone say, "Vacations are cheaper than divorces." I sort of laughed it off but then I really thought about it. What does it look like to invest in your marriage instead of letting it shred apart? I know how much daily life can peck away at even a strong foundation. Relationships have seasons and especially with small children at home, you have to work to keep things going. Earlier this year Matt and I were talking about the upcoming decade anniversary and decided that after making it through Ben's first birthday, we would take a trip. If you know me at all, you know that I clip coupons and shop deals. Spending money on a trip or anything that feels like an extravagance, instead of an essential, can be hard for me! I thought back to that quote though about vacations being cheaper than divorces. If you truly invest a little bit into your marriage , even just a few days away together, can make a marked difference in your relationship. 

  For five whole days we were just Matt and Emily. We could sip a drink on a beach chair or take a ride in a two seater kayak over the turquoise ocean. We weren't regulated by a child's meal or nap schedule. We didn't have four shadows behind us everywhere we went or interrupting our every conversation. Of course we treasure our season of family life, but let's face it, it's exhausting. Each day is filled with so much flat out work to keep things going with four young kids. It was refreshing to us each personally and as a relationship to get away. I think we are going to commit to do things together more, even on a much smaller scale.

   Yesterday morning I was laying awake, with the slow creep of our real life filling my brain. I knew we would be on a plane back home that evening. I couldn't fall back asleep so I decided to go watch the sun come up over the ocean. My camera was majorly fogged so I had to finesse it a bit but I eventually got a few shots. I am so glad I did go watch the sunrise though because I can cling to that beauty when I am back in the mundane. Even today I have wrestled with children who need things, laundry to be washed, dishes to be put away, and meals to be planned, along with a pile of business to-do's waiting for me. While I am dealing with the monotony and mandatory, I can remember what it felt like to see the aqua ocean, to watch fish swim in and out of rocks, to watch the sun sift through the palm over my head and even just the smile of my husband over an icy fruity drink with island rum.  

I really can't believe it's been ten years. I hardly recognize those kids in the wedding photos. I might have more to say on that another day, such as things learned in a decade of marriage. Thanks for a wonderful trip Matt and here's to the next ten years!

A few minutes after sunrise over Grand Bahama island.

I spotted this washed up buoy a couple hours after sunrise in Grand Bahama with the sun high in the sky! Looks inviting doesn't it?!

(For anyone wondering though, we had a fantastic trip booking experience through vacationsexpress.com. I was afraid it wasn't legit or wouldn't be nice but it very much was and everything was amazing! We were already talking about going back again, maybe even WITH our kids!)

To Ben on his first birthday

  Dear Benjamin,

    In a way, I wonder how it has only been 12 months that you've been with us because we cannot imagine our family without you! You've brought something to us that we didn't even know we needed! Your sweet smile and hearty giggles are like balm to our souls. You pop up in your crib with a good morning grin each day and have been the certainly the cutest roommate I've ever had (sorry daddy). 

We decided to name you Benjamin, as Benjamin was the youngest son of Jacob. Your middle name, Dewey, came from Daddy's beloved Poppop who lives in heaven. We wanted you to know your legacy and hold your place as our little caboose, our youngest son. 

Your baby days have been different for me in so many ways than with your siblings. Maybe it's because I know you're my last or maybe it's because I brought you home to other big kids. With your big siblings, life was an absolute blur of moments. We moved into our current home with 3 kids in cribs and diapers. When you made your appearance, everyone was potty trained and not a baby toy in sight. You have had everyone to dote on you. It has been sweet to see your big brothers and sister adore you! You patiently listen as they try to read to you. You smile as you terrorize their big kids games and toys. They joke that you're a little bit like "baby godzilla" to their lego creations. You have single handedly brought so much more love and joy into our home. You're affectionately called "cute boy" around here, which I am sure you will just love when you're older! 

Yes, Mommy is more tired than ever with more gray hair than ever. Yes, Daddy has had a whirlwind of days and nights between work and family. We are more confident as parents with you but more acutely aware of the speediness of time. We know these moments won't keep and you're determined to grow. We do subtly see ourselves becoming smitten with you, therefore creating that "baby of the family gets away with everything" mentality. I absolutely can see how that can happen! So much of your first year you've been along for the ride of where the family was already headed. You happily rode along to many school drop offs and pick ups (ok, a few of those rides weren't so happy)! It's been more fun celebrating your firsts with your siblings cheering you on and getting excited for you. We look forward to continuing to watching you grow in this life. We will count it a joy to shepherd you and see what God has in store for the sweet boy with the big blue eyes and charm! 

May this blessing ring true over your little life,

‘May the Lord bless you
    and protect you.
May the Lord smile on you
    and be gracious to you.
May the Lord show you his favor
    and give you his peace.’ Numbers 6:22-27

With so much love from Mommy! Xoxo.

July 24, 2016,  Rehoboth Beach Delaware

Monday Confessions after a birthday weekend!

  A first birthday can bring up so many emotions, but mostly for me it's a sense of triumph. We have made it through the first 12 months of life with this tiny human! Ben does not turn one until this upcoming weekend but we celebrated yesterday with family! I have been trying to write this blog post all day but every time I come back to it, I get interrupted with life! So here's an iPhone shot of yesterday's festivities and hopefully I can write a little more to Ben over the weekend...

1. What is it with the UTZ party mix?! It's addicting. My kids beg for it when we actually throw a party and I managed to avoid touching it until this afternoon. Three bites eventually turned into 3 handfuls and then I RAN away!

2. Speaking of running, I only ran once last week. Here's to this week...although it's 100 degrees out and I haven't worked out yet today. I am working on planning better but not being laden with guilt, because lets be honest, guilt is a mother's middle name!

3, It's 4pm and I still don't know what's for dinner. I am struggling in this department this summer!

4. Struggling to force the kids to do summer reading consistently. Anyone with me?! We go in fits and starts. I am trying....I swear. 

5. I loved this blog post today from Kilee over at One Little Mama about 5 things that make a productivity difference when working from home! I think my favorite was "Do one thing that can't get undone." Anyone else have great ideas for work at home mamas? Even after 7 years, I KNOW I need better systems. (P.S. I adore Kilee's style so thats how I started following her on instagram. Isn't she adorable?!)

6. I took 4 kids to target to shop with gift cards today. We lived and I purchased NOTHING for myself or groceries or home. This is some kind of record.

7. After Target, we strolled through the mall where I passed Pottery Barn and looked wistfully through the window, remembering life before kids. I see all those pretty things now as objects to be stained, ruined or broken. Of course life with kids is full of action, fun and love....but every once in a while I remember back to decorating our home and it was still how I left it when I would get home from work. Now I can't leave one room to the other room without preparing for disaster! 

8. I am exciting to be traveling alone with my husband in a couple weeks to celebrate our 10 year anniversary. I realized earlier today that I haven't been on a plane in years :( This is crazy for me because in my young adult days, I would hop on a plane at least once a year or more. Who has great ideas for packing for a short trip in a carry on?!

9. I confess that RHONJ is back on tv and I am tempted to watch. I know, I know...but when you've watched from the beginning, it just seems like you should be committed, right?!

10. I have started listening to podcasts while running instead of music. I find that the more engaged my brain is, the less it thinks about how it's dying. Stuff you missed in History class is a fun one if you like to know about random things from the past. Bet you didn't know there was a manure crisis in NYC in the 1800's or that the French rebelled against German occupation with their fashions? I know I didn't know about either of those things until I listened! You can thank French ingenuity for the cork and wood wedge shoe! Because those materials weren't rationed in WWII, the French designers explored them as options for soles of shoes and the wedge was born!